I cried for you in my car.
I rapped about our struggles.
I told the imaginary crowd how I wish I never left you.
But, I left to come right back.
Stronger than before.
I have the solutions to our problems.
If only you’d listen…
& you did.
You heard the roar.
I stopped the car to read a message from you wanting to know where I was.
I am in your heart…
xoxox, Big Sister, Mom & Dad
Do you find yourself going backwards; replaying moments in your head? What are you missing? What are you looking for? Justification. Clarity. Empathy or sympathy. Release. You have no one to talk to… not even your inner voice will listen… what do you do then?!
You REprogram. It is time to take your power back. Send that voice right BACK where it came from!
Hear me out, I know this is not an easy task…but here are the steps
- Acknowledgement of the thoughts that were forced upon you
- Acceptance for what you are facing
- Love where the thoughts came from (and where they are going back to)
The fourth step is where it gets tricky, and this is where positive self talk comes into place. Let me give you more details on my personal example in the introduction video:
I choose to experience sleeping with a new male in my life. I’ll blame it on the hormones, but truly I had aligned with the moment after “praying” for a no-strings-attached sexual encounter. Anyhow, the next morning I was not thrilled with my decision. What I deeply wanted and what I was given were two opposite extremes. My fault for not being clear in my manifestation…
The issue came when the Voice in my head began nagging me for choosing to sleep with him. I heard every problem. Every, “why would you do that? You could have…”
God, it would be refreshing to tell MYSELF a story and hear positive feedback, or even questions!
“How did it feel?”
“What would you have done differently looking back?”
“Is this a moment you would openly share with others?”
“Would you do it again?”
I VOW: to hear a new Voice; a voice that is interested in the psychology and meta-physics of the moment. This voice will never judge an experience as good verses bad. It will simply ask.
xoxox, reprogramming through radical honesty and open expression